You'll have to tell
your girlfriend who had the threesome, that you're very good friends with the other girl and tell her that you've been put in a very difficult position.

Don't approach the cheating boyfriend, as far as he knows nobody's blabbed and it'll just cause more arguments if he feels betrayed by his friends. I appreciate that he doesn't deserve much in the way of consideration, but it will make things easier on the innocent parties, including yourself, if he doesn't get shouted at by you.

Tell your threesome friend that you don't know how you're going to be able to keep their secret and it's up to them to put a stop to it or tell the guy's girlfriend. I wouldn't go as far as to give them an ultimatum of the "you tell her or I will" variety. Just make it clear that you're torn between two friends and you're more likely to side with the victim than you are them.

That's what I'd do, anyway. I realise that you're not asking for advice on how to deal with it. Just trying to be helpful.
( Kroney, Mon 29 Sep 2008, 14:00, Reply)