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All the angles have been pretty much covered by others, so I just want to say *hugs*

Hmm. Also... While I agree wholeheartedly with you MM, that people have the right to know things that would alter their viewpoint (not to mention the fact that personally I for one would be loathe to see anyone investing their future, and their children's future, in someone who may wreck it further down the line), you said this was told to you on a heavy night... Is there any possibility that all this could have actually happened In Her Mind, rather than in reality? Just another thing to consider...

But all round, it's a shit situation, no easy answers, and I empathise with you for being put in that position.
( warmfuzzies Isn't here, Mon 29 Sep 2008, 17:52, Reply)