I've only skimmed
the thread but I thought I'd chuck in my tuppence worth.

Don't all flame me but I have cheated in every relationship I've had except my current one. I know it's wrong but I did it because I wasn't really happy in the relationship or with myself. The concept that someone else could find me attractive preyed on my low self confidence and I just felt I couldn't pass it up.

Having seen this from the other side I can say that if this guy has cheated on her then this is not the right relationship for either of them. This relationship has to end, if it doesn't end now then it will end once they are married or worse once there are children involved.
( Mrs Entity is in hiding., Mon 29 Sep 2008, 18:13, Reply)