Stig
I kind of understand your difficulty about following the morals argument but there is a big distinction between white lies and not telling someone about something such as this. (I have a small amount of experience, read my Guilty Secrets post if you want)

I'd hope to hell that one of my good friends would tell me if it were happening to me.

With regard to what someone said about not keeping quiet to make you feel better, what is wrong with that? obviously other people's feelings have to weigh in too, but that decision was taken out of MM's hands to some extent by her being effectively boasted to about what has happened.

my judgement: the only feelings worth considering here are MM's and the girl who doesn't know anything about it. Everyone else forfeit theirs.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 29 Sep 2008, 18:27, Reply)