"What I really meant was that if the two of you aren't having sex, and you feel like you need to be fucking someone else, then it isn't working..."
Exactly that! If two people are comfortable with a casual relationship, the fine. However if one is under the impression that the relationship is permanent and has invested trust (and heaven knows what else) while the other puts it about in frankly humiliating fashion then I'd say it ain't right.
(Bicycle Repairman "you're also a bit of a wanker", Mon 29 Sep 2008, 18:50, Reply)