Hmmmm.
Much depends on the people involved, I'd say- I've been with women who are almost impossible to get to orgasm, and I've been with ones who hit it within thirty seconds.

For my part, I prefer to get the woman either to orgasm or pretty damn close before actual penetration occurs, then make sure she gets there before I do. How long that takes depends on the woman. How long it takes for me to get there once she's done depends on how tired I am or if I've been drinking.

Can't say that I've ever really bothered to time it, though...
( The Resident Loon Not a demographic. Do not measure., Sat 8 Nov 2008, 17:38, Reply)