Thank you everyone
These suggestions have cheered me up no end.

In reality I'm entirely in agreement with Elvis - revenge will achieve nothing and may in fact make things worse for the kids.

However, imagining the impotent rage on my ex-father-in-law's face keeps me smiling.

What have I really done?

Contacted the CSA again - he officially pays nothing whatsoever towards the children's upkeep as he is apparently penniless, despite driving a new car....amazing what a good accountant can do.

I hope to keep the moral high ground and hopefully show my children that laughing at nasty selfish individuals is better than becoming like them. They'll make their own decisions in time and I've never said a bad word against their father because he *is* their father.


And I'd feel bad if I did something nasty to them, even if they're evil.

Bloody hell, I *am* Pollyfuckinganna.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Mon 12 Jan 2009, 14:00, Reply)