This happened to me once.
I was with a guy for about 3 years..
He used to guilt me into doing everything he wanted, my needs would always come last. He was possesive and arrogant but because the problems between us seemed trivial in comparison to the things some people go through, I put up with it.
A few times I told him how upset I was that we never did anything I liked and how he would get angry at me for interrupting a tv show because I wanted a cuddle. He said that he'd change, and he would for a bit but he'd always go back to the same selfish ways.
He was generally a nice guy though so it took a lot of effort to finally convince myself that nice wasn't enough.

After we broke up I was upset for a long time because I was lonely, but realised I didn't actually miss him, just the feeling of being with someone.
Then I found the bestest guy in the entire world who makes me feel amazing. If I'd stuck with something that was acceptable I never would have found something that was great.

So I hope that helps. If you really love him I hope it all works out but don't lead a miserable life for nothing.
( Mellicious is made of candy, Tue 28 Apr 2009, 14:27, Reply)