All I can say...
...is thank fuck Al isn't around at the moment.

Been where you are, and came out the other side. This is gonna be shit for a while, but you said it yourself, you both changed.

Grab your best mate, and hit the pub - it's part of the process.

Oh, and the 'make time' thing is good advice. Been with my Wife for 11 years, and you'd think it was 11 minutes by the times we tell each other how we feel about each other. Her Nana used to ask her 'Have you met anyone you love more than you love yourself?' We're lucky the answer is 'yes', you'll find the person that makes you say 'yes' to that question when you least expect to meet her...
(Apathyman Prepare to be underwhelmed..., Wed 27 May 2009, 19:03, Reply)