Really sorry to hear that.
The only words of comfort I can offer are: if you can't live without each other, this will be a wake-up call and she will come back. To maximise your chance of this happening, avoid initiating contact for several weeks and then don't ask her back, just tell her you love her. If she can't live without you - she'll come back.

If she can live without you - then at least this way you know, before you've gone down the marriage route and so forth. Not much comfort now I'm sure - but better you find this out now rather than later, after kids and so forth.

But it sounds to me like given a bit of time and space, you guys might yet work it out. I really hope so - 5 good years - I assume they were good ones - shouldn't end due to a few weeks of difficulties.

All the best.
( I_Was_Mordred, Wed 27 May 2009, 23:49, Reply)