And that.
The difference is I'm not scared of the whip.
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 21:55, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

One of the whips-and-chains-excite-me crowd?
/is woefully vanilla
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 21:57, Reply)

Just a bit.
Have had to suppress it in previous relationships - vanilla is OK but I get bored very quickly - but it is very much relevant to my interests. Can't seem to help flexing plastic rulers at work, which Pot will attest to.
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 21:58, Reply)

Never had the opportunity
First guy I slept with never lasted longer than...um, not sure I should say, but not very long (yes, I DID go back for more. What does that say aobut me? I shouldn't publicise my sexlife on the open internet) and I've not got out much.

Once I find a guy who knows what he's doing...
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:00, Reply)

It's not for everyone. There's so much trust involved in a relationship like that.
My first was an utter cunt and I kept going back for more too even though he had no idea what to do to a woman beyond kiss sloppily :( it's been uphill from there!

Will be happy to offer advice if you need it!
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:07, Reply)

One day, I'll complete the epic story I started writing about my woeful life.
But no one will ever see it. It started in 2004 for gawd's sake!

Thanks, I'll message you if I ever need it! I don't have a Mr. at the moment, though I have designs on a couple of guys for casual!sex. But one's pretty much not interested. I might have to jump on him. Again.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:22, Reply)

I came out of an 18-month relationship in March
and am only just learning I don't hate being single as much as I thought. Got a rotten crush I can't do anything about at the moment though...

I need to put everything down on paper too, so when I'm an old lady I can look back at it and think "yeah, I had fun!"
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:28, Reply)

I only wrote a diary to record moments/to rant and rave
But I have letters. Lots of letters. And messages. And texts, buried in my computer!

Yeah, I'm just waiting for September to start anew, whereever that is. I hope it's London. Because Edinburgh will involve more inadvertent/wellmeant "stalking" and probably destruction of the fragile friendship I have with one guy I like.
Even if London has Pretty V.
/sigh
Where have all the good men gone?
/doesn't know the rest of the words

We ladies gotta stick together.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:32, Reply)

I have locked documents on my PC and
a livejournal since 2004.

I'd all but forgotten what it's like to have a crush on someone and now I do I can't really stop thinking about him... it's making me more confident - this is no bad thing - and more flirtatious with people - perhaps a bad thing dependent on context. Especially as I know it's reciprocated. I spent ages at uni involved in well-meant stalking (and less well-meant where Stalker Girl was concerned, I still feel sorry for that guy and I did later apologise to him) and wishing the incredibly hot guy in my Italian class would return my affection before deciding he was gay...

I know all the words *ashamed*
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:38, Reply)

I managed to mis-call him 37 times
in 2 days.
I think that ruined my chances somewhat.

I've not been out in ages, though, though I don't think I'd pick up in clubs. I like to talk, and it's hard to hold a conversation with loud music. I've talked to nice people outside when on fagbreaks, but what's the point in going out if I'm going to sit outside on my own, waiting for someone else who's alone? I don't like having crushes on people. Because with me, they're always oneway. Is there a chance he likes you?
Good luck though :)
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:42, Reply)

Eek. I need my phone taking off me when I'm wasted.
I don't like clubs - I've made far too many ill-advised pulls in there that always end up coming back to haunt you. Student unions are the worst for that! And the fact I can't hear myself think, let alone order anything over the din... bah. Clubs FTL.

I think know he does :) circumstances are a little odd but I'm really liking the fluffeh feeling it's giving me to like someone again! Thanks :) can gaz you the link to my LJ if you want to see how NOT to do pulling at uni!
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:46, Reply)

Agree with that
but don't know where else to find the boys :P Here? I'm not pandered to. I hope that's a good thing :D
I've only pulled twice in clubs, one had been brewing for ages, the other turned into a relationship that ended quickly because I was ugly. Trufax.

Oh that's good! I'm getting a bit of support from an old flame, who I gave love and advice to. But It's good that you're having a nice time. That'd be good, actually, thanks. TBH I'll probably not end up in situations where I'd pull, or guys ANYWHERE near me ^_^

EDIT: For Gawd's sake MTFU
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:50, Reply)

I'm a great advocate for b3tan-on-b3tan action
- have met one ex through b3ta, one through him and another chap I've been known to engage in naughty fun with.

As for the one that ended it because you were 'ugly', he wants cunting in the fuck! *flexes ruler of doom*

Flatmate says he's not interested in another relationship with anyone, which cheers me in a strange way, but he's very good with the advice, telling me he'll be more than OK with it if I bring someone home while we live together. Will drop you a gaz and will have to check it's not all f-locked first. I update sporadically lately, though.

No need to MTFU; it's cathartic!
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 22:58, Reply)

Ha, I guess I'm still quite young
I've got my whole life ahead of me.
Thanks for chatting to me, you're really interesting! I knew you were great when you liked LC! and Amanda, and did latin ^_^

Off to bed, now. Sleep tight.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 23:06, Reply)

*blushes* d'aww.
Yep, I wish I was where you are now, and I'm only 23 ;) wish uni was in front of me again and not behind me!

Sleep well x
( Maladicta, Sat 20 Jun 2009, 23:07, Reply)