To be honest
If it's a proper big massive broken heart and this was the Love of Your Life, then you won't 'get over' it in the way you think.
You'll definitely get happy and you'll definitely get better, but that person will always crop up in your dreams, and certain songs will always remind you, and the mention of their name will always make you feel weird.
Every now and again when you think you've forgotten them, they'll flash into your head.
The good thing is, it will stop hurting soon.
I haven't worked out how to remove a certain person from my head, but I've accepted that it's just residue. We spent too long together for me to remove it. I definitely am not pining. I just really think the little shit left a stain on my brain.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 15:55, Reply)