Just because I can't see your eyes
I'll say no. But it's not much more difficult :( I don't feel proud of it. Same with doing all kind of stupid favours and having completely unkown people sleeping at my house.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 21 Apr 2010, 14:53, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

don't get me wrong
I see where you are coming from. I do the same thing- do favours for people, or go out of my way to be nice, but not with sex, that's too big a thing to just dismiss my own feelings on
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 21 Apr 2010, 14:56, Reply)

You're obviously a very kind, generous person
But Amberl is right, sex has to be entirely mutual or it just won't be, y'know, proper sex. No way are you going to enjoy yourself if you don't REALLY want to be doing it in the first place
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 21 Apr 2010, 14:59, Reply)

Oh, but I do enjoy it
It was only that bit that I couldn't understand why it was so important, as I didn't feel anything. Everything else was very good.

My actual boyfriend has had me shivering, literally (and I mean literally), unable to control the movement of my body, to the point of breaking on laughing, unable to stop, just because it feels so good everywhere, from toes to head.

I wouldn't have sex twice with a guy if he doesn't make me come at least once.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:05, Reply)

Thank god not everyone shares your attitude

(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:10, Reply)

I'm very easy
If you can't make me come once, you're very bad. And you can usually try several times in one night, if you are up to.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:24, Reply)

I thought you said you weren't up for it?
Also, male ego moment, I'm not THAT bad at sex, honest. No way could I have persuaded Ms Foxtrot to stick around if I was

I'll get back to being a self-depreciating gimp now
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:27, Reply)

I'm using the impersonal "you" there
I don't mean you, just you (in plural). It's complicated.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:29, Reply)

I know, I'm being a cow
Sorry. I do applaud your minimum-orgasm stance though. Us men need to be told what we're doing wrong occasionally
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:38, Reply)

I'll have it into account for the future
Not that I'm planning on leaving my bf, oh no, he's great. But he keeps saying he doesn't mind if I have sex with other people, so I might need it.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 21 Apr 2010, 15:53, Reply)

Don't tell me that
You'll make me think the wrong things
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 21 Apr 2010, 16:03, Reply)