I couldn't agree with you more
My bf and I started going out a few months after his ex-wife left him. A lot of his friends think this happened too quick and he must have been faking all the pain of having to divorce her (he didn't want at all and had some very bad time)

Then, through all the bad moments, he started to pick up very quickly and before we realized we were thinking as a couple.

I think getting engaged is a bit too much, though. It means not only that you are feeling better, but that you're so good that you are ready to commit again. I understand why it feels so bad, but don't blame yourself. If it's the person I think it is, it might be that he needed something simple and vry much at hand.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 10 May 2010, 8:38, Reply)