I would seem that it would be of no consequence to your Grandmother (unless you're a particularly favoured grandson whose presence would cheer her)
So it's really wehter you would get anything from it. If you don't feel the need to see her one last time or have anythng you feel you need to say, then don't go. There's no need to be a martyr.
(Cave Duck, Tue 20 Jul 2010, 9:17, Reply)