I think the phrase
'Equality on their own terms' is appropriate. I also don't get how some women (and a small percentage mind, most women I know aren't twats) expect to be walked home at night so they don't get mauled by some rapist, yet get all uppity if you hold a door open for them!

Well next time you want a protective male escort, count me out. The chances are I'm just programmed to be polite and hold open doors for people. gah!
(pacman_40 Pocket Kleenex: for the wanker on the go, Mon 5 May 2008, 10:28, Reply)