You should be able to dress exactly as you want
And if you want to show your cleavage, then that's fine. It is, however, the female eqivelent of going around with your bollocks hanging out ( a sight I am subjected to by my flatmate), and should be viewed accordingly. There is also a big difference between just having a large chest that cleavages whatever you do, and specifically hoisting the whole lot on the world. Which again, is fine, but you can't get upset if blokes stare at your tits. It's not about judgement, it's just hard not to look and then feel pervy when it's not really your fault.
( Madam Marlboro wonders if you've found her yet, Tue 6 May 2008, 15:52, Reply)