Bizarre
So, as you all know, dear hubby dumped me in January for the 2nd time in 5 months. Instead of begging to go back to him again, I said "fuck this" and got myself a cute little apartment, new furniture and although he owns his own business and I'm entitled to $2,900 alimony a month for a year plus half of his business assets, all I asked for was for him to make my car payments as I can't afford it now I'm paying everything on my own.

Ok, says he. After all, his first wife took him for everything and forced him into bankruptcy. I'm just not that kind of person.
I just figured we'd do a simple divorce - we both sign papers saying we split up for irreconcilable differences and we have no assets. The only stipulation being he makes the car payments on my car.

Around the time mum died in February, I started getting very close with a good friend of mine, and we're now dating and are very happy together. But he's 25 years older than me.
He's a truly wonderful man.

Ex hubby found out Thursday who I'm dating and yesterday spent a half hour instant messaging me telling me I'm a money grabbing whore, a worthless piece of shit, and generally being a nasty little fucker about me and my character. He told me I only married him for his money - even though he didn't have any and I helped him build up his business and helped him out financially in the early days!

He then told me that I only stayed with him to get my green card (absolutely NOT true!) and that once it looked like it was in the bag that's why I fucked off. Wait! I fucked off? I gently pointed out that he was the one who dumped me and not to take it out on me that I'm dating again.

Now, after his vitriolic spewing yesterday, I think I will take him for the alimony and half his business. Money grabbing whore? So be it.

Fucking cunt.

Oh, and now on his myspace in the "things that scare me section", he's included "dating people from Hull". Made me laugh.

Edit: Oh my god. I blocked him from myspace and msn, he just wrote on my facebook "WBM is a gold digging twunt who is now shagging X for his money after the death of his wife".

Double Edit: So after more hate filled rhetoric, he called my boyfriend (who he knows). When he wouldn't pick up, he called me. Threatened me with calling immigration - even though there's proof I married him because I loved him and there's not a damn thing he can actually do now - he then threatened to take me to court for half my inheritance from mum.
As he kicked me out about 6 weeks before mum died, he can't claim a penny. I kept quiet about what I can get from him.
My boyfriend got on the line with him, calmed him down and actually got him to agree that my terms of the divorce are better than what will happen if he continues to be an ass.

Bless, my man doesn't need this shit but he's sticking with me through it. :D I am a very lucky woman.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 7 Jun 2008, 16:54, 19 replies)

What a prick!
I'm also not one for taking a man for all he is worth...but you did help him with the business so you do deserve to recoup your part of the business.
( flirting with badgers What? It sounded good at the time., Sat 7 Jun 2008, 17:08, closed)

Yeah, but we were together
5 years overall, and it's give and take. He paid for most of my new furniture, a new TV and DVD player etc.
Morally, I can't take him to the cleaners, but I think I will scare him a little.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 7 Jun 2008, 17:12, closed)

If you feel like you've recovered your investment, then you've done well.
But giving him a good scare sounds like a great idea. It sounds like he has been a big jerk for quite some time.
( flirting with badgers What? It sounded good at the time., Sat 7 Jun 2008, 17:15, closed)

He must still be carrying a torch for you.
Or else he's just a plain old dickhead.

You scare the fucker good and proper.
( girlinthehole, Sat 7 Jun 2008, 17:34, closed)

'Ave him
Good 'n' proper. Take the cash, lay it out on your bed and send him a photo of you and your new bloke romping on it. That'll learn him.
(randomstupidname would really like this signature field to be bigge, Sat 7 Jun 2008, 17:51, closed)

my god
How old is this man?! Having a go at you on his myspace and over facebook. I thought only 15 year old girls do that kind of thing.
(lei, Sat 7 Jun 2008, 22:50, closed)

fleece the twunt.
i mean really shaft him. properly. he deserves it!
( blaireau69 , the Cumbrian Travis Bickle., Sun 8 Jun 2008, 15:22, closed)

Cool
Thanks for posting that. And thanks for the cheery phone calls, WBM. ;)
(AblahamRincon, Sun 8 Jun 2008, 17:40, closed)

Ablaham Rincoln
is my soon to be ex husband. Bless him. He's trawling message boards now to tell everyone what a whore I am.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sun 8 Jun 2008, 17:52, closed)

You're an
excellent fiction writer. You left out many facts too.
(AblahamRincon, Sun 8 Jun 2008, 18:42, closed)

*hugs*
That's just puerile of him. I usually hate this phrase but it applies well to him: SAVE THE DRAMA FOR YOUR MAMA.
( Maladicta, Sun 8 Jun 2008, 22:40, closed)

I am doing a forensics minor at uni
I know how to poison people and how to get rid of the bodies. Want some help? :p
(Petite chien is going to do science to it, Sun 8 Jun 2008, 23:31, closed)

Oh
and the ignore button exists for a reason, I suggest you use it ^^
(Petite chien is going to do science to it, Sun 8 Jun 2008, 23:34, closed)

haha!
wow. you gotta give him points for effort I suppose. How purile. Poor thing you. Luck!
(darras jeg har en grevling i hodet. Grevling, grevlang, Mon 9 Jun 2008, 12:46, closed)

WBM
I see he signed up to b3ta 5.5 years ago...was this so he could keep tabs on what you were writing, do you think?

Or was your shared love of b3ta one of the things that brought you together?
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Mon 9 Jun 2008, 16:13, closed)

BobFossil
I introduced him to b3ta.
And apparently, I'm whoring myself out to the highest bidder.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Mon 9 Jun 2008, 18:22, closed)

@WBM
God, he sounds like such a pathetic loser. Breaking up with you must have been the worst decision of his life, and now he's realised that (a) he fucked up, and (b) you're not going to run back to him, he's just spewing out pure vitriol to try and make his own insignificant life seem better. What a pillock.

*Offers lots of transatlantic hugs*
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Tue 10 Jun 2008, 10:34, closed)

You missed your calling
You have such a a flair for drama. ;) You should have been a writer.
(AblahamRincon, Tue 10 Jun 2008, 16:16, closed)

Oh, Richard
Please go away and accept I found someone new. Ok, so it's an old friend of mine. Big deal. I never cheated on you no matter what you and your family think (of course they'll believe you over me any day).
I admit I deserved to be kicked out, but for the 2nd time in 2 months why would I come crawling back to you the way I did the first time?
What happened with him and I was unexpected, but it happened.
You dumped me, remember? You also told me there's no way in hell would you have me back. So I moved on.
I am not going to screw you over, I just want my car payments because I can't afford them. Now please, stop harrassing me on messageboards and leave me alone.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Wed 11 Jun 2008, 2:32, closed)