Thanks
Also, to be fair they have been put in an horrendous position, working for a government department that every one hates with an inefficient system. they have to talk to hundreds of people each day who are probably at the lowest point in their lives. and deal with people who are being stopped from seeing their kids. so any of them that half a brain leave, you'd have to be some sort of sadist to enjoy that job.
(Vinegar strokes Should know better on, Sat 23 Oct 2010, 12:13, 1 reply)

Mrs vinegar strokes here, been reading this barrage of shite, just to make things clear, this is a man that provides for his kids, quite happily, went to court for the simple reason the ex wouldn't let him see them despite trying to be amicable. Some dads walk away. I was beaten by my ex, ended up walking away, with the kids, lived in a hostel before finding somewhere to rent. My ex has paid £20 in 18 months towars upkeep for the kids. Plus his visits are intemittent.
Relationships flounder, and fizzle out, doesn't make you a bad person, makes you human. If you are an adult, you make things as smooth as you can.

Vinegar strokes went to court as a last resort-either that, or his ex wouldn't let him see kids as he dared to leave. As for money, he has no worries about paying support. He takes them on holiday once a year, takes them all out each fornight, cinema, meal, etc, anything they need, he buys. Csa, have taken money when they shouldn't. Taken different amounts from what they've said, miscalculated, left him with bank charges, etc.

Believe me, I know bad dads, this is not a bad dad. This is just someone who is pointing out the failures of this government agency. I'm stumped if i can see where he has said he doesn't want to support his kids?
(Vinegar strokes Should know better on, Sat 23 Oct 2010, 12:23, closed)

You do realise you're trying to justify yourself and your fella to a board full of trolls, don't you?

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Sat 23 Oct 2010, 15:45, closed)

I do
But I thought some of the users here were better than just attacking everyone for everything. Some people ought to go back to 4Chan.

PS Mrs Strokes has fucked off back to Sicki
(Vinegar strokes Should know better on, Sat 23 Oct 2010, 16:40, closed)