Even if your disposable income is your own to do with whatever you like
do you get rebuked if you decide to spunk a huge amount of cash up the wall on something your other half doesn't approve of?
( sandettie light vessel automatic New Twitter - @bollocksreally, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 11:41, 2 replies)

What - like coke and hookers? Yeah - she does get a bit prissy about that sometimes.

( Je suis un vagabond is an unfunny, up your own arse middle class knob, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 11:47, closed)

I don't often buy expensive things
but often I buy things he doesn't always appreciate: new Hello Kitty trainers, Sailor Moon comics (I'm collecting) etc. Still, he never tries to stop me using my own money. If I wanted to buy a rare San Diego Comic Con edition of Sailor Moon graphic novel no. 11, even if it was £200 or something he would wonder why maybe but not say 'no you're not allowed, it's stupid'.
( Bats, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 11:49, closed)

Not preventing you
just disapproving, tutting and whinging about it
( sandettie light vessel automatic New Twitter - @bollocksreally, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 12:21, closed)

Depends.
He doesn't really understand why I like hello kitty, but the most I get usually is a playful eyeroll and a shake of the head and it's left alone. If it was "Well now why did you buy that? It's a waste of money. You didn't need a new pair of gloves, why buy those? What possible good is that going to do you..." etc then that's different.

I had an eyeroll and a "Wtf?" when he rolled up with an iphone but then I left him to it.
( Bats, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 13:12, closed)