The man who assumes he will be getting a shag,
is the man who carries rohypnol.

I can't claim to know what women want, but I'm reasonably sure that it isn't rape.
( monster munch person, man, woman... camera... TV?, Sat 10 Dec 2011, 19:36, 2 replies)

Seconded.
While women are all up for it all the time and are just playing hard to get when they say things like "no" or "please leave me alone" or "200 feet at all times, pal", sometimes persistence isn't as endearing as some chaps think.
(Shinigami, Sun 11 Dec 2011, 22:46, closed)

It's a balancing act.
He's right. There are any number of beta males who will sit into their mid 20's hoping some hot goth chick will find them mysterious and interesting, when in reality they just look bad mannered and awkward. They eventually manage to pop their cherry with a fat bird who is either drunk, or as desperate as they are. And that for them is how sex works, and will be a struggle for the rest of their lives.

The other end of the scale is a rapist. The extreme end though.

Between the two there are men who understand how it works. You want it? Ask for it. Sometimes you get it, sometimes you don't. Be nice, and you're more likely to get it.

Not rocket science, it's just a bit of biology with a dash of psychology.
(username failed moderation, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 11:29, closed)