@ Grandmasterfluffles (and everyone else)
The common theme in all the stalker posts is that the woman does the approaching (or is easily apporachable), so if you're not the most outgoing/confident person chances are you get approached by a mentally unstable bunny boiler.

I don't think it's a case of being a glutton for punishment, perhaps people only ever meet the nutters, and it takes a while for people to stop the pretending that happens at the start of every relationship and for people's real characteristics to show through.
( Moonraker isn't the droid you were looking for, Tue 5 Feb 2008, 17:13, Reply)