I understand your possition, however, I belive you're bieng over protective.
Hex is a fantastic guy, I know and love him to pieces.

I belive that you should allow them to continue their online relationship, stop spying on your step-daughter's private messages, and appologize.

Apon the relationship becoming offline, and I hope if that is what your daughter and Hex wants, then that happens... deal with it then. I doubt that, that would happen while she is still under age (at lest, by UK laws).

As much as I love hex, he is not an adult.

And I very very very much doubt that he is after her knickers, so to speek. He is not like that in the slightest, and i'm saying that as someone who knows him very well. I can understand how you would think that, but I'm afraid you are misinformed on that point.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Sat 31 May 2008, 15:53, archived)

you are very much the voice of reason, Gonzy McGonzagall.
But in the eyes of the law Hex is an adult.

I dunno about any of this so I can't judge. I just think everybody needs to CALM DOWN CALM DOWN.
( KersaI Missive Free Michael Shields! with Monday's Liverpool Echo, Sat 31 May 2008, 15:58, archived)

If he's this good at looking after her ONLINE, I dread to think what poxes she's caught off her real life friends already.

( baldmonkey a frothy foul-smelling vaginal discharge, Sat 31 May 2008, 16:01, archived)

Sorry, you're right about that.
Actualy, going a bit off-topic, prehaps they should introduce 'teenager' inbetween adult/minor.

Morely though, what i'm trying to get at, a just-about-to-turn-16 year old and a just-turned-18 year old, isn't a problem.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Sat 31 May 2008, 16:01, archived)

sorry honey
But regardless of what you say, Hex IS an adult, but that's not the question.
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Sat 31 May 2008, 15:58, archived)