To be fair, 20 miles isn't really that far
Where do you live?
( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Sun 10 May 2009, 11:50, archived)

Outside Newry in Co. Down, a stones throw from the border.
and its far enough when you consider at least 8 miles of that are fucking roadworks
( TBL I posted this on, Sun 10 May 2009, 11:53, archived)