there is a fine line between showing you are open to offers
and appearing too needy/desperate and scaring people off.
( Enigmatic ™                 Voice No More                  ©, Sun 3 Jul 2005, 1:26, archived)

well
he might not object to having a lovely lady pounce on him and shag his brains out.
( toxie, Sun 3 Jul 2005, 1:27, archived)

No not at all
but the fellow may use her if he thinks she is there for the taking any time. This is the balance.

(I also had a couple of stalkers, they went beyond the realms of pushy and after that experience I am scared of women who throw themselves at me and then somehow seem permanently stuck with super strength glue and major psychotic disorders.)

edit/ however - men are useless at getting hints. Just whisper softly in his ear those magic words. "Fuck me [INSERT NAME HERE]" and he will be putty in your fingers and rock in your mouth.
( Enigmatic ™                 Voice No More                  ©, Sun 3 Jul 2005, 1:30, archived)