Owen Hart. But he wasn't gay either. Committed family man, was Owen.
The only openly gay wrestler that I know of is Pat Patterson, who isn't dead.
( Malchick, Wed 3 Jun 2009, 22:26, archived)

Yeah, "I'm not really gay, I just FELL into the ring"

( Druid, Wed 3 Jun 2009, 22:28, archived)

Chris Benoit.

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Wed 3 Jun 2009, 22:34, archived)