First I'd heard of it
and I'd always got on well with her, now I feel all disappointed and parent-like
( DeSpong currently knitting your suggestions - see profile, Wed 9 Sep 2009, 11:38, archived)

people make their own choices
not a lot you can do about it I'm afraid. And to be honest I imagine it was a bad enough time for her without people interfering and poking their own opinions and expectations on her.
( spangolin - the odds are good but the goods are odd, Wed 9 Sep 2009, 11:52, archived)