It's usually (by a rate of over six) the men who leave.
Like Theodore 'Dr. Seuss' Geisel going off and having an affair that led to his wife's suicide after she got cancer.
( .Yeti., Thu 27 Nov 2025, 11:28, Reply)

Nice man.
Geisel supported the internment of Japanese Americans during World War II in order to prevent possible sabotage. Geisel explained his position:
'But right now, when the Japs are planting their hatchets in our skulls, it seems like a hell of a time for us to smile and warble: "Brothers!" It is a rather flabby battle cry. If we want to win, we've got to kill Japs, whether it depresses John Haynes Holmes or not. We can get palsy-walsy afterward with those that are left.'
(The Porcupine From Purgatory we of all lost both have them, Thu 27 Nov 2025, 11:37, Reply)

How are we to beat the Japs, if we don't provide them slaps?

( mofaha ┐( ˘_˘)┌ ʅ(́◡◝)ʃ, Thu 27 Nov 2025, 11:43, Reply)

Don't let them through the gaps

(The Porcupine From Purgatory we of all lost both have them, Thu 27 Nov 2025, 12:42, Reply)

Better keep them under wraps

( mofaha ┐( ˘_˘)┌ ʅ(́◡◝)ʃ, Thu 27 Nov 2025, 16:07, Reply)

Maybe he found out his wife had Japanese roots or something.

( .Yeti., Thu 27 Nov 2025, 12:25, Reply)