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# I believe all of that stems from trying to claim back an offensive word and in doing so make it less offensive
this was the case with homosexuals claiming the word Queer. The words themselves are still intrinsically offensive but in attempting to claim the word it somehow disarms the bigots - in theory.

But in fact the 'N'-word is still extremely offensive to Black people, even when said by other Black people.

Bigots are bigots and they come in all colours, shapes and sizes.
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:26, archived)
# Point taken
I just find it strange thats all. Like lesbians who hate men but dress up and try to look like one. Do you have an explanation for this?
(Quinni TK421 Isn't at his command post on, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:30, archived)
# I think people are people they have all kinds of hang ups
Not all lesbians dress like men, but I think it's more that they hate the attitudes of men rather than hating all men. Sexuality is sexuality I'm not going to judge others by their tastes unless it's something genuinely wrong. "Stop doing that Mediocre!" ;)
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:45, archived)
# I know they don't hate all men just the butch boy looking ones.
I'm only joking but I hope you know what I mean in a strange sort of way.
(Quinni TK421 Isn't at his command post on, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:50, archived)
# I know what you're getting at but it is a generalisation.
As a female busdriver I'm often accused of being a lesbian because it's such a male-dominated job. There are a few lesbian busdrivers and they are all lovely people and are not in anyway "Men Haters" or even that butch, they just happen to be attracted to other women.

As for the "Butch Boy" ones you mention have you ever thought they may be Gender Dsyphoric (transsexuals) rather than lesbians - there is a big difference between gender identity and sexuality.
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:53, archived)
# I know a tranny when I see one.
big hands, adams apple, midnight shadow etc. I've got nothing against them after all they are no threat to me, unless they gang up and duff me up in a dark allyway in London.
(Quinni TK421 Isn't at his command post on, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:03, archived)
# See this is exactly the kind of bigotry the world could do without - sorry but you obviously do have something against "them".
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:06, archived)
# I don't honestly
I just don't get it thats all.
No offense intended whatsoever.

I appologise to any who has taken offence.
(Quinni TK421 Isn't at his command post on, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:10, archived)
# I don't think it's for you to "get". Be happy to know people are different and have different goals in life
it would be a very dull world if we were all the same.
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:12, archived)
# Here Here..
(Quinni TK421 Isn't at his command post on, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:13, archived)
# Where? Where? :D
That was a fun discussion I enjoy a good debate.
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:16, archived)
# You have expanded my mind
with your words of wisdom.
(Quinni TK421 Isn't at his command post on, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 11:25, archived)
# i think that's a gender issue, rather than a sexuality issue
(I helped save b3ta! real i'm not happy 'til you're not happy, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:46, archived)
# ^this
(I helped save b3ta! maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 20 Nov 2010, 10:49, archived)