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# Heh, I've been having a very similar conversation for a few months now
It just takes a bit of adjusting to I guess when people are taught that genders should act one way, we're pitted against each other before we ever get to learn the ways of the world for ourselves

Life gets so much more straight forward when you take things as you find them
(I helped save b3ta! Jessie © needs pirate name suggestions, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:06, archived)
# It annoys me when woman behave unreasonably
And try to stop their sweetie from enjoying himself.

It gives the rest of us a bad name, and it's unfair on the men.
(Pachey, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:11, archived)
# Amen sister!

But seriously, bang on, it's one of my all time pet peeves
(I helped save b3ta! Jessie © needs pirate name suggestions, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:16, archived)
# ah it's cool....
I still enjoyed myself, and I'll still pick her up in the car from nights out at three in the morning without complaining. I think it's just that men and women have different ways of showing that they love each other...
(I helped save b3ta! Sonic James Doom forgetting the date since... umm..., Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:20, archived)
# That's bollocks
Partially created by the media.

You either treat someone with respect or not.
(Pachey, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:24, archived)
# Well...
I didn't really mean "Men and Women", I just meant "people" as everyone's different and so on, but I got in a word tangle and that was the easiest way to put it....

Silly words. If only I could draw.
(I helped save b3ta! Sonic James Doom forgetting the date since... umm..., Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:28, archived)
# I'm not convinced it's strictly the case
Though maybe more than I originally used to think, but that's what we grow up seeing and believing, so that's how we act.

If you take little 'uns you find girls just as enthusiastic about playing with trucks as boys, and boys just as likely to be emotional as girls...but somewhere along the road we learn how 'wrong' that is and start 'acting more like a young lady' or stop 'acting like a pansy'.
We start playing our roles in this vast game of boy vs. girl, and spend the rest of our lives trying to manipulate each other from our own ways of being.
I'm just not convinced it really has to be that way if you don't want it to be.
(I helped save b3ta! Jessie © needs pirate name suggestions, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:31, archived)
# It doesn't have to be that way at all...
I think all people really need is a bit of empathy every now and then.... regardless of gender... Every situation, and every person is different and it's how you rect to that I suppose...

See explanation of wording above... didn't really mean "Men and Women" per se....
(I helped save b3ta! Sonic James Doom forgetting the date since... umm..., Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:37, archived)
# fairy nuff
Apologies for the suspiciously mini-rantish response, it's just one of my interests...and still something that perplexes me about the world after years of studying it!
(I helped save b3ta! Jessie © needs pirate name suggestions, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:43, archived)
# I love trying to figure out the world...
Sadly, sitting in coffee shiop windows just watching people often makes people thing you're a weirdo...

(I helped save b3ta! Sonic James Doom forgetting the date since... umm..., Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:48, archived)
# I think a lot of people enjoy it though
A lot of women use it as an excuse for bad behaviour.
(Pachey, Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:44, archived)
# As do a lot of men...
Insufferable yobbish fucktards that they are...
(I helped save b3ta! Sonic James Doom forgetting the date since... umm..., Fri 5 Oct 2007, 11:46, archived)