I don't see it that wayI suppose I tend to view it in the way that it's a scientific fact that human beings need to have sex to further the species, and ever since we realised that it feels nice we've invented new and exciting ways of feeling that pleasure- we're all adults and aware of this. So to me it's about as offensive as talking about photosynthesis. And just as beautiful and perfect a concept.
Don't get me wrong, there is a lot of stuff about love that I am very private about, but sex.... sex doesn't have to be about love. I think sex and 'making love' are two very different acts, and I never really talk about the latter.
Plus I would eventually like to be a couples therapist so I really do kind of have to be comfy talking about it.
(Don't get me wrong, there is a lot of stuff about love that I am very private about, but sex.... sex doesn't have to be about love. I think sex and 'making love' are two very different acts, and I never really talk about the latter.
Plus I would eventually like to be a couples therapist so I really do kind of have to be comfy talking about it.
Captain Wow currently being a cunt in Infamous,
Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:28,
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i understnad all of thatbut i'm just i guess put off by the fact that sex and peoples sexual urges are suddenly so public, not to say things should be all secret and taboo..but now days it's seen fine to flaunt such things and in some cases i just think "oh god thats tacky". but i wouldn't be cool with being so open about it. i just think thats something better kept between me and my sexual partner, if i have one (ever again. ha).
not for one moment am i saying lets all be repressed and don't talk about such things..but i just find the whole idea of going somewhere devoted to ones sexual desires or urges and being so public with it really odd and unpleasant.
but whatever people are cool with it as long as it's not having ill effect on others it's all fine.
(not for one moment am i saying lets all be repressed and don't talk about such things..but i just find the whole idea of going somewhere devoted to ones sexual desires or urges and being so public with it really odd and unpleasant.
but whatever people are cool with it as long as it's not having ill effect on others it's all fine.
KittyVomit more super than a can of Tennants,
Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:38,
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Suddenly?There's been orgies for thousands of years. Only recently have we really become so internalised. I mean recently in terms of hundreds of years, but still. I think for me (in no way a reflection on your views, you're entirely within your right to have them) talking honestly about something as joyous as sex can't be offensive if graphic images of slaughter and war crimes are nationally broadcast into people's homes in the middle of the day and everyone's fine with that. I think it's unfair. There's millions of people out there who don't know the first thing about how to touch another person and get frightened to the point of losing an erection because of nerves because they've never felt comfortable enough to ask anyone- that to me is so sad.
I don't regret my teens one bit, I'm a lot calmer now but only really because I've satisfied a lot of my curiosity.
But yes, that's just my opinion, and we both have valid points. If everyone agreed all the time life'd be bloody awful.
(I don't regret my teens one bit, I'm a lot calmer now but only really because I've satisfied a lot of my curiosity.
But yes, that's just my opinion, and we both have valid points. If everyone agreed all the time life'd be bloody awful.
Captain Wow currently being a cunt in Infamous,
Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:45,
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In many ways devoting your whole life to photosynthesis and the constant discussion of itwould be incredibly dull though. Regardless of how sexuality makes you physically and mentally feel, its ultimately no more important or interesting than any other dull and tiresome cultural eccentricity.
I could go into the comparisons between heavy BDSM culture and the church but i'm incredibly lazy and am going to sleep instead.
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Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:40,
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I could go into the comparisons between heavy BDSM culture and the church but i'm incredibly lazy and am going to sleep instead.
night night ya big bearded lesbian KittyVomit more super than a can of Tennants,
Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:45,
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BDSM = whipsJesus = got whipped.
sorted.
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drbroon abloooobloobloo,
Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:46,
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Not to someone who studied it.I'm one step away from elbow patches and a voice synthesiser in terms of geekish researchy stuff.
Those last three words weren't very eloquent, but there appears to be a party going on in the road.
(Those last three words weren't very eloquent, but there appears to be a party going on in the road.
Captain Wow currently being a cunt in Infamous,
Sat 29 Mar 2008, 2:50,
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