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# I'd thought about that
he is behaving so strangely, I have no idea how he would react to that, and it would make me feel terrible no matter what happened.

and I'd hate to descend upon her (and her parents) at this late date
(I helped save b3ta! gracielou, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:47, archived)
# Fairy Nuff.
I'd go out and find a nice American chap.
(I helped save b3ta! bovine I'm so old, even my old is old, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:56, archived)
# good luck
they don't exist (or don't like girls)

I'm not bitter. not at all.
(I helped save b3ta! gracielou, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:59, archived)
# *hugs* to gracie,
my twopenniesworth:

He's being an arse. He knows he's being an arse. However, if you're lucky, at some stage he might *apologise* for being an arse.

But, saying that, however much you adore him your happiness shouldn't be entirely dependant on him (easier to say than do I know) so plan your trip for May, which gives you something to look forward to even if you saw your friends instead. Then, given that you are a few thousand miles away, doing something fab in the US instead! Plan it for when you were meant to be here and enlist all your friends to help. Then at least when he asks what you did you can say 'well I chopped all my hair off and dyed it pink and bought an entirely new wardrobe and got a facial and blew all my friends money :)'
(Amerella, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 10:10, archived)
# Woo for sensible advice!
(I helped save b3ta! bob dinosaur, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 10:22, archived)
# Well the bleeding and death idea
had a certain amount of style and charm ;)
(Amerella, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 10:24, archived)
# But a little impractical
from 5000 miles away...
(I helped save b3ta! bob dinosaur, Mon 24 Feb 2003, 10:52, archived)