Massturbation???advice needed: I am 16 years old (17 in a week). I started masturbating when i turned 16. I watched a movie, there was sex in it and then i started doing it. i just thought of it as nothing significant. i heard that this was called masturbation and after reading at wikipedia. i am disgusted with myself. I am a christian and stayed away from girls and porn and then suddenly got into it. Now i am scared to ask girls out because of my past. I want to stop it all now. In my college boys talk about girls and porn, is it possible that some of them do it as well?? i don't know what to do? i just want to end my life and have another chance to start again. i read that it's just as worse as having s e x. someone please tell me, i am really disgusted with myself. does anyone else here do it? will i be condemned to hell? will i ever be able to have a girl friend or wife or normal life? i am depressed now. someone please advise me, i would really appreciate it, man. bye, got deleted, writing again.
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Ttssattsr,
Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:04,
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First you gotta understand that overall ... it is a selfish act.You only benefit yourself and nobody else by masterbating (masturbating). Sex is meant for 2 people not one. That is the natural way of life. Whenever you masterbate, your only having sex by yourself.
Secondly, do you ever masterbate w/out fantasizing? Usually masterbation (masturbation) accompanies fantasizing. They both compliment each other and make the experience more joyful. I would say fantasizing precedes masterbation (masturbation). Guys usually get in the mood by fantasizing about a hot lady. Once the fantasizing arouses the guy, the guy usually wants more pleasure and options to masterbates to create an orgasm for him.
I rarely seen a situation where a person does not fantasize while masterbating (masturbating).
That my friend is the answer to your question. If somehow you can stop fantasizing about hot models/actress/ladies, you will be less aroused. And if you aren't aroused ... why should you masterbate?
(Secondly, do you ever masterbate w/out fantasizing? Usually masterbation (masturbation) accompanies fantasizing. They both compliment each other and make the experience more joyful. I would say fantasizing precedes masterbation (masturbation). Guys usually get in the mood by fantasizing about a hot lady. Once the fantasizing arouses the guy, the guy usually wants more pleasure and options to masterbates to create an orgasm for him.
I rarely seen a situation where a person does not fantasize while masterbating (masturbating).
That my friend is the answer to your question. If somehow you can stop fantasizing about hot models/actress/ladies, you will be less aroused. And if you aren't aroused ... why should you masterbate?
gronkpan @vomitinglarry.bsky.social,
Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:07,
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And if you aren't aroused ... why should you masterbate?INTERESTING.
( Ttssattsr,
Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:11,
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i am happily married and masturbat all the time also..been for years..i think my wife can notice when i do because i cant hold an errection as long and when i *** its not alot of semen. i feel horrible after i do this
( gronkpan @vomitinglarry.bsky.social,
Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:14,
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Jesus loves those that have a good wank.The Lord created you in his image. The lord is a wanker.
The make-believe sky daddy watches you whilst you wank. He is a gay wanker.
Some will say to you, that you will burn in hell for all eternity for wanking. Ask of them, what part of infinite eternity is this bit now?
I like a bit more 100% in my eternity.
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Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:13,
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The make-believe sky daddy watches you whilst you wank. He is a gay wanker.
Some will say to you, that you will burn in hell for all eternity for wanking. Ask of them, what part of infinite eternity is this bit now?
I like a bit more 100% in my eternity.