
does not mean that just because some bloke is an asshole they are a good example of toxic masculinity.
( , Wed 29 Jul 2020, 1:05, Reply)

And I suspect what is and isn't a good example varies depending on who you ask.
I also reckon that even just considering what might or might not be a good example is valuable if it helps people to empathise and think about their own interactions.
I like to think that could outweigh the down side of seeming divisive.
( , Wed 29 Jul 2020, 8:01, Reply)