Ok ex partner not a relative
Borderline PD is a bundle of laughs....here are a few examples.

Threatening to kill me.
Threatening to kill himself
Physically attacking me.
Physically attacking his brothers (they don't talk to him now).
Throwing tantrums a 3 year old would be proud of on at least a weekly basis.
Biting himself while having said tantrums.
Randomly chatting up any female in the vicinity when drunk (including my best friends).
Being drunk most of the time outside of work.
Accusing me of sleeping with random men.
Answering the phone by shouting fcuk off and slamming it down again.
Changed jobs every few months as no one could see his potential.
Ditching his friends slowly but surely as he got bored of them and of course it was something they had done.
Regular public humiliation of me usually through loud accusations of infidelity and calling me some very unpleasant names.
Extreme jealousy of anyone who he perceived had more than him this included some of my family.
Total paranoia over his cock size (cos of course that's all women worry about) oh and it was average by the way.
Mood swings, up and down like a bloody yo-yo.
His favourite line was no one tells me what to do. I do what I want, when I want.
I wish I'd got wise to that sooner and told him to fcuk off and do it elsewhere.
I mean, really, I put up with that crap for 6 years WTF was I thinking?....I now have some self esteem thankfully (and feel so much better for getting that of my chest).
(cmouse is pondering about life in other jobs, Tue 10 Jul 2007, 13:38, Reply)