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I think i'm falling for my best mates' sister (who in essence is 1/2 of the duo that make up my best mate's) and dont know if i should tell her....and I cant speak to him about it.

fucksocks.
(drain_bamaged, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 16:39, 6 replies)

I point you to previous reply of mine
b3ta.com/questions/dumbthings/post111117
( Kroney, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 16:40, closed)

lol
i actually lol'd @ that and had everyone in the office wondering what was so funny! I might have to try that approach...its the whole 'if i tell her and she runs a mile, her bro will as well' dilemma/// buggary.
(drain_bamaged, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 16:44, closed)

Whats more imporatnt?

Girls come and go, usually. A good mate is harder to replace, lose one of these and you may lose both.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 17:26, closed)

Don't,
just don't expect relationship advice on b3ta.
(Stu Moo winner of five nobble piece prizes, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 17:28, closed)

:(
NakedApe's got in one. Had a similar scenario myself and it went very badly. I'd give the power ballad approach a go though.
(Stevie Ruggling, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 18:26, closed)

It very much depends
On how old you are....I know that sounds crap - you can fall in love at any age, blah, blah, blah...but by and large if you're both over 30 the chances are you've made all the mistakes (no...you haven't) You've made *some* mistakes and have (possibly) a better idea of what you want from life (I'm talking utter bollocks, ignore this).
However, if you're in your teens the chances are you'll both grow apart, ruin the friendship and everyone will hate everyone else.

Or not.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Wed 2 Jan 2008, 20:38, closed)