Yeah, but talk is one thing. Sharing bedroom secrets is quite another. My male friends only talk about current partners sexual activities in broad terms (e.g. we had a slow one last night) and ex's in non-identifying terms (e.g. used to know this chick who liked xyz). We generally don't offer up personal details or anything that could embarrass or damage anyone else - and thats probably because we dont want our stuff shared either. We do talk, of course, but there is a line I think and generally my friends default to the respectful side of it.

My partner and I have agreed that what happens behind closed doors stays there, and it was the same with my long term ex. I trust them to stick to that. There is no chance I'd be able to really express myself sexually if I thought it was going to be shared. That may sound naive but at the same time I've been particular about who I share those things with.

I wonder what your friends fiancee would say if he knew she was sharing that sort of info? Maybe he wouldn't care. Dunno. I know I would.
(XmanX captain upsetter hahahahaha, Mon 26 Oct 2009, 19:21, Reply)