
Sandettie Light Vessel Automatic tells us: "Until I pointed it out, my other half use to hang out the washing making sure that both pegs were the same colour. Now she goes out of her way to make sure they never match." Tell us about bizarre rituals, habits and OCD-like behaviour.
( , Thu 1 Jul 2010, 12:33)
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Locking the back door 17 times and then washing one's hands twice with water and twice to rinse for obsessive fear of catching a cold is significantly different from spending a whole year in an environment where being shelled and sniped at by anyone in the vicinity and seeing men, women and children be quite literally blown limb from limb.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 12:41, 2 replies)

thinking you're 'fat' and 'revolting' and starving yourself because of it, just because you want to be skinny, is trivial in comparison to the actual suffering experienced by someone who was abused as a child. They're the ones with something real to worry about, while the anorexic should just shut up and eat more.
Don't belittle anyone's suffering. Not understanding it is one thing; making it out to be trivial because there's worse things is quite another.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 12:57, closed)

But I do kind of feel that way about anorexia too - likewise I believe fatness can be cured through cake eating-avoidance.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 13:09, closed)

1. Our minds notice (or even make up) patterns very easily.
2. The mind is generally quite lazy.
When some people experience fear/anxiety for no real reason, they want to return to feeling comfortable as quickly as possible (so they won't think logically like you have, because it takes too much time).
So their mind will identify patterns of behaviour that it believes 'led' them to this fear/anxiety, no matter how arbitrary.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 13:42, closed)

would appear to be the most acceptable answer I've been given so far.
Thank you.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 13:45, closed)

spending a year being shelled.
It's the time after afterwards, where you still think you're being shelled when someone pops a crisp packet.
They're both reactions to what are really non existant stimuli.
You're comparing apples and oranges.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 13:55, closed)

But I still think they're not really comparable - while I accept that OCD may be brought on by stressful situations, it's the irrationality of continuing with it when it becomes annoying or debilitating that I don't understand.
( , Fri 2 Jul 2010, 13:58, closed)
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