Hurrah!
I agree - not having children is not selfish!

I was lucky enough to be sterilised last year and the relief was tremendous - no more nasty fattening injections, or remembering to take tablets every day, especially as the current Mr Beklet is somewhat fertile and has 4 children of his own (he doesn't want any more)

People don't tend to ask me about it really - maybe they take one look and think I'm not the sort of person they'd want having kids anyway....
(Beklet is inexplicably angry, Fri 18 Apr 2008, 10:35, Reply)