dont know...
if you are male or female but let me if i may offer you the worst piece of advice i have ever been given..

my mum was 19 when she got 'caught' first time out. yip virgin/preggers, she always told me...

live your life see the world DONT have kids young! IT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.

this is not true. you cry when a life leaves this world not when it enters ive found as my back teeth get more apparent

even despite the fact my mum and i loved each other like there was no one else in the world and my dad was an aggressive alchoholic and life was tough growing up.

my dad bullied and terrified me all through my childhood. this made me fearful of being a father myself - it seemed too much a responsibiity - especially if i had a son. i met the girl of my dreams at 19. we were METICULOUS about birth control for 12 or so years then decided yeah lets have a wee one.

didnt work out so easy, had to have IVF, now have the most gorgeous wee boy but at 39 (me) and 42 (mrs spimf the chances of another successful IVF have been rated at 3%`)

have your kids young. you have more energy and they are whatever anyone says on here the single most rewarding and wonderful thing you will ever do.

and dont worry aboyt jobs money or that shit. look back at the worst financial/ career disaster that ever happened to you. means fuck all now doesnt it.

so happy fucking (yeah its fun too)

sorry if this sounds worthy but if it helps one b3tard then cool

x
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Sat 19 Apr 2008, 2:06, Reply)