ha
in real life, i am honestly very low-maintenance. well, fairly low-maintenance. i don't wear make-up unless it's an evening do, i am usually in jeans and trainers, i am virtually impossible to piss off...

i don't see marriage as an "achievement" though. if it's what you want, great. but it really isn't for everybody. it is undeniable that most people become much more dull when they settle down, and i love my high-octane out-with-different-people-every-night lifestyle. if i want clipped wings, i'll buy a parrot!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:00, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

I wasn't referring to the act of marriage
I'm not sure of my reasons for wanting to do it, but I do. I could just as easily not, but the fact that I am with someone who makes me want to is what I was referring to :-P

I do pretty much exactly the same things as I did before I "settled down", can't see it changing much either. We aren't intending to have kids, and have friends who aren't (or can't, unfortunately for them) so have people to play with
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:05, Reply)

the only thing that matters is that not everybody wants the same thing
if you (as in "one", not as in "vipros") wants to settle down with one person, great. if you want to carry on playing the field and dating lots of different people because you have a low boredom threshold and don't really believe in everlasting love, great. if you like your own company and don't really want to live with anyone else, great.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:07, Reply)

*wonder if anyone saw the accidental post*
I'm all about that, people can do whatever they want. Finding someone like my mrs came as a hell of a surprise to be honest.

What my point was originally is that you should stop fucking whinging about all blokes being shit.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:11, Reply)

a lot of them ARE!
if you asked any of my many female friends, you'd be appalled.

then there are loads of lovely stories. but they aren't funny, so i don't post them on here.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:15, Reply)

you and your friends are picking the wrong ones :-P

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:18, Reply)

no no no
the world is just full of wrong'uns!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:23, Reply)

yeah, wrong 'uns like you

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Feb 2011, 16:27, Reply)