I found a text like that and I wish I'd used it to start a sensible conversation instead of going ballistic.
If you're confident she'd believe you weren't snooping, then say you found it while fixing the phone.
If not, you could set about fixing the phone while she's there and act like you just found it, but don't kick off, just show it to her and say "well there's obviously something wrong here."
If you're not confident she won't kick off, then do what berk said - pretend you've not seen the text and hope that you starting a dialogue makes her act with honesty. You do run the risk of her pretending everything's ok though, and the frustration you feel will be like acid in your belly.

Also, she might have been stringing this fucker along, is not remotely in love with him, and was just using it as escapism. In which case - what if she wants to fix things? Are you already gone?
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Sun 6 Mar 2011, 10:29, Reply)