Different meeting, old boy.
Today's was with the cunt who threatened me, I'm not meeting with the ex til Sunday. She's now saying she wants to meet at my flat (aka inspect my flat). I promised myself she'd never set foot in there again after a number of horrendous incidents - I don't know what to do about this.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 16:36, 4 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

Suggest it would be better for both of you if you met someone neutral.
There won't be any distrations then.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 16:38, Reply)

I think this is sound advice

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 17:32, Reply)

Ah, apologies. You can see why "full apology and promise to stop acting like a cunt" made me think of your ex though.
I'd go back to her and state your case for not having it at your flat - don't let her think she has the upper hand, however well you clean and tidy she's bound to find some tenuous reason as to why it's not child-friendly.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 16:39, Reply)

don't fuck her

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 16:59, Reply)

I won't.
I didn't when I was pissed, single and on holiday with her - there's no fucking way now...
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 17:19, Reply)

Tell her she can inspect the flat
once you've agreed on the sleepover etc. Make it conditional
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 17:08, Reply)

Good thinking: thanks

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 6 Apr 2011, 17:32, Reply)