Perhaps if this is positioned as
'It's not my business and don't want to get involved, but I'm concerned about the impact on my kid. I'm not going to say anything to [current bf] but where would you take her if he chucked you out?'
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:18, 2 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

^

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:19, Reply)

That sounds OK actually

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:20, Reply)

I would keep well fucking out of it.
You haven't exactly got proof have you?
(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:21, Reply)

^ non parent right here ladies & gentlemen ^

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)

^Relationship advice from someone getting divorced up there^

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)

More responsible parenting advice.
Get on with some work you workshy good for nothing.
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:29, Reply)

I'm on a conference call with managers playing pass the buck.

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:33, Reply)

I think I might have a look at the bbc website.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:35, Reply)

You can read about why they're passing the buck.

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:36, Reply)

^ This
The more involved you are, the more likely she'll be to lash out at you when it all goes tits up for her.
( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:23, Reply)

Make it 100% about your daughter's wellbeing.
Mummy bringing home a new boyfriend regularly is something you might have to talk to your kid about separately if it's affecting her behaviour.
( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)