Define normal parameters.
You said looks are irrelevant. You're either lying or naive.
( Peej, Fri 2 Aug 2013, 15:41, 1 reply, 12 years ago)

4'6 or 300lbs and it would be fair enough
but if someone is normal looking, ie healthy and pleasant, then you shouldn't say, "oooh, i couldn't be with him/her because they're not hot enough for me." similarly if someone is a total cunt but they are gorgeous, that doesn't mean that it's a good idea to overlook their personality defects. fine if there are other good reasons, of course. but not just on looks. that's gross.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 2 Aug 2013, 15:48, Reply)