I have kept a written record of every day - even noting the days of no contact, what sort of mood micro has been in, what we've done together, any conversation with my ex, copies of emails etc. since we split.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:28, 1 reply, 11 years ago)

Excellent work.
I have to say that for all my ex was becoming slightly unhinged during the final days of our marriage, she's always been pretty reasonable with all things regarding the kids.
(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:30, Reply)

There is so much detail it's about an 80 page word document.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:33, Reply)

Of course shit's gonna fly if you have to use it, but if things go nuclear it's best to have the biggest bomb I guess

(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:37, Reply)

I've also got a couple of friends who have offered affadvits about my ex's behaviour should I need them.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:38, Reply)

Ideal. Hopefully she'll see sense and it won't come to that.

(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:44, Reply)

good
keep all the detail. your lawyer is good. he will tell you which bits he needs to use. the more he has, the more it helps him.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 28 Feb 2014, 11:39, Reply)