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@Edmund:
Ask her!

Speaking from personal experience, I've found that when I've asked a female friend and it does not become more than friends, things may be a bit awkward at first, but as long as you don't make the 'asking' bit drag on, the friendship should survive. In one case, even though this happened many years ago, we're still friends and still occasionally chat on MSN to this day. In all cases, I've come to the conclusion that it's better to ask and risk temporary awkwardness - just know when to back off.

However, if you've asked her, she says no, and think you're likely to fall apart, it's best to avoid her for a while until your mind is focused and are back in a routine - especially if you're likely to hear about her more 'casual' experiences.

Good luck! And if it goes wrong, come to the QOTW OT chat-threads for some hugs. It's what we're here for.


@Maldicta:
Eurostar is ace, and you know it! I just wish they'd lose the X-rays when checking in. I hate having to empty my pockets!


Re this month's bashes:
Can do the ones on the 18th and 20th. Not the ones on the 10th or the camping one.
Speaking of which, I heard The Resident Loon was visiting the UK. Is he coming to any bashes?
( mistaspakkaman and the inedible shifting caterpillars, Fri 29 Aug 2008, 23:14, Reply)