@MM re: Loon, @ancrenne
Is that what makes a relationship a relationship?

With one ex, it took me ages to confess to my friends that he and I no longer had sex. Sex had stopped because of a few different reasons and probably some extra ones we didn't even know about. He still wanted to have sex. I still wanted to have sex. We just weren't able to have sex with each other and that was really upsetting, but we still loved each other hugely. My friends were horrified.

I've been in relationships where sex becomes secondary and then practically non-existent. In fact, most of my relationships were like that until current-bloke. For me, it's the knowledge that one person prefers me over everyone else, whether it's as a friend or a lover, and I prefer them, and that's what makes it more than a friendship.

(I also love teh cock, so sex is a big bonus.)

Edit: @MM - 'bismirched penis' is a beautiful turn of phrase!
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