I'm older, but not that much wiser, however...
Not to be cruel, but it sounds like he's being an immature, possesive dickhead. If you're broken up, you're broken up. He may be pissed at Jacob, but you should be pissed at Nick. At the moment, this dear ``friend'' is acting like you're his possession. Tough as it may be for you to lose a friend, I'd say he's forfeited that privilege by how he's acting.
(tuqueboy has been in a medically -induced coma since, Tue 10 Feb 2009, 2:55, Reply)