Yeah...
That's kinda how I'm feeling at the moment. He's gone as far as to 'warn off' another friend of his who he thinks might be making a move on me - it feels quite galling to have him try to control who I do or don't get involved with. Right now i'm not interested in being involved with anyone - I'm not stupid enough to be looking for a boyfriend when I'm 3 weeks out of a 2 year relationship.

So logically yes, he's not acting like a friend to me. I still want to stay his friend though, irrationally. I'm the only person he's able to talk to about this sort of stuff, and he's acting all depressed. The part of me that still cares for him, even in a platonic way, is sad to see him like this.

I can't just tell him to piss off either, because he's still really good friends with a lot of my friends, and i'm not so keen to cause him to alienate them all.
(Holy Gabrielle is Holy, Tue 10 Feb 2009, 3:02, Reply)